Wednesday, 30 January 2019

ANYONE WHO HAS PRIDE IN HIS HEART WILL ENTER PARADISE


ANYONE WHO HAS PRIDE IN HIS HEART WILL ENTER PARADISE
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SATURDAY 26TH JANUARY 2019 CE AND 19TH JUMUDAL ULA 1440 AH
BismillahWalhamdulillah Was Salaatu Was Salaam 'ala Rasulillah. As-Salaam AlaikumWa-RahmatullahiWa-Barakatuhu.
Praise be to Allaah; we seek His help and His forgiveness. We seek refuge with Allaah from the evil of our own souls and from our bad deeds. Whomsoever Allaah guides will never be led astray, and whomsoever Allaah leaves astray, no one can guide. I bear witness that there is no god but Allaah, and I bear witness that Muhammad (Sallalhu alaihi Wa salam) is His slave and Messenger.
Subject: Anyone Who Has Pride In His Heart Will Enter Paradise
Holy Quran, Allah says:
وَيَوۡمَ ٱلۡقِيَـٰمَةِ تَرَى ٱلَّذِينَ كَذَبُواْ عَلَى ٱللَّهِ وُجُوهُهُم مُّسۡوَدَّةٌ‌ۚ أَلَيۡسَ فِى جَهَنَّمَ مَثۡوً۬ى لِّلۡمُتَكَبِّرِينَ (٦٠)
And on the Day of Resurrection you will see those who lied about Allah [with] their faces blackened. Is there not in Hell a residence for the arrogant? Quran Surah Zumar 39:60
قِيلَ ٱدۡخُلُوٓاْ أَبۡوَٲبَ جَهَنَّمَ خَـٰلِدِينَ فِيهَا‌ۖ فَبِئۡسَ مَثۡوَى ٱلۡمُتَڪَبِّرِينَ (٧٢)
[To them] it will be said, “Enter the gates of Hell to abide eternally therein, and wretched is the residence of the arrogant.” Quran Surah Zumar 39:72
in the Hadith; It is narrated on the authority of 'Abdullah b. Mas'ud(R) that the Messenger of Allah () said, “Anyone who possesses half a mustard seed of Pride (kibr) in his heart will not be granted admission to Paradise. And anyone who possesses half a mustard seed of Eemaan will not enter the (Eternal) Fire.” Sahih Muslim 91, Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1998 and Sunan Ibn Majah Vol. 5, Book 37, Hadith 4173
Amr ibn Shu’ayb via his father and grandfather that the Prophet () said: “On the Day of Resurrection, the arrogant will be gathered like ants in the form of men. Humiliation will overwhelm them from all sides. They will be driven to a prison in Hell called Bawlas, with the hottest fire rising over them, and they will be given to drink of the juice of the inhabitants of Hell, which is teenat al-khabaal.” Jami at-Tirmidhi, 2492; classed as hasan by al-Albani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi 2025
The Kinds and Degrees of Kibr
It should be noted that there are different degrees of kibr, similar to the stages,
1. Kibr on account of possessing true faith and belief.
2. As opposed to it is the pride in invalid faith and false belief .
3. Pride on account of good qualities and praiseworthy attributes.
4. Pride in moral vices and undesirable qualities.
5. Pride in one’s righteous deeds and devotional exercises.
6. Pride in sinful and wicked deeds.
As to the Kibr towards God, it is the most abominable, the most destructive, and the highest degree of pride, and is present in infidels, those who contest God’s authority, and those who make claims to divinity. Sometimes its traces are seen among some men of faith as well. This kind of kibr signifies the extreme of ignorance and the absence of knowledge about one’s limits and the majesty of the Necessary Being.
Kibr that openly opposes and negates Eemaan results in the removal of the one who holds it from entering al-Jannah as is found in Allah’s statement, And your Lord says,
وَقَالَ رَبُّڪُمُ ٱدۡعُونِىٓ أَسۡتَجِبۡ لَكُمۡۚ إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ يَسۡتَكۡبِرُونَ عَنۡ عِبَادَتِى سَيَدۡخُلُونَ جَهَنَّمَ دَاخِرِينَ (٦٠)
“Call upon Me; I will respond to you.” Indeed, those who disdain My worship will enter Hell [rendered] contemptible. Quran Surah Ghafir 40:60
Kibr of Iblees and others
This is the Kibr of Iblees (the Devil), Pharaoh and all the others who possessed the Kibr, which invalidated Eemaan. The first one who showed arrogance towards Allaah and His creation was the accursed Iblees, when Allaah commanded him to prostrate to Adam and he refused and was arrogant, and said, “I am better than him (Adam), You created me from fire, and him You created from clay.” This is also the Kibr that the children of Israel possess and those whom Allaah has described to us by saying:
وَلَقَدۡ ءَاتَيۡنَا مُوسَى ٱلۡكِتَـٰبَ وَقَفَّيۡنَا مِنۢ بَعۡدِهِۦ بِٱلرُّسُلِ‌ۖ وَءَاتَيۡنَا عِيسَى ٱبۡنَ مَرۡيَمَ ٱلۡبَيِّنَـٰتِ وَأَيَّدۡنَـٰهُ بِرُوحِ ٱلۡقُدُسِ‌ۗ أَفَكُلَّمَا جَآءَكُمۡ رَسُولُۢ بِمَا لَا تَہۡوَىٰٓ أَنفُسُكُمُ ٱسۡتَكۡبَرۡتُمۡ فَفَرِيقً۬ا كَذَّبۡتُمۡ وَفَرِيقً۬ا تَقۡتُلُونَ (٨٧)
And We did certainly give Moses the Torah and followed up after him with messengers. And We gave Jesus, the son of Mary, clear proofs and supported him with the Pure Spirit. But is it [not] that every time a messenger came to you, [O Children of Israel], with what your souls did not desire, you were arrogant? And a party [of messengers] you denied and another party you killed. Quran Surah Baqrah 2:87
Arrogance is one of the characteristics of Iblees
Arrogance is one of the characteristics of Iblees, so whoever wants to be arrogant should realize that he is acquiring a characteristic of the devils, and that he is not acquiring a characteristic of the noble angels who obeyed their Lord and fell down prostrate. Pride is an attribute that is not befitting for anyone except Allaah. Whoever seeks to compete with Allaah in that, Allaah will destroy him, wreak vengeance on him and make things difficult for him.

The Prophet said,
“No one who has an atom’s-weight of Pride in his heart will enter Paradise.” A man said, “O Messenger of Allah, what if a man likes his clothes and his shoes to look good?” He said, “Allah is Beautiful and loves beauty, Pride means rejecting the truth and looking down on people” [Sahih Muslim]. 
Commentary: 
The word or the name for arrogance/pride in Arabic is ‘Kibr’. This is the inner quality of pride. The name of the outward quality is ‘Takabbur’ which means arrogance. 
Arrogance is a blameworthy characteristic which is the feature of Iblees and his followers in this world, those on whose hearts Allah Ta'ala has placed a seal. 
Eleven (11) Signs of a Person Having Pride/Arrogance are stated hereunder: 
1)    He doesn’t like others to have what he has 
2)    He cannot avoid anger 
3)    He cannot avoid being jealous of others 
4)    He doesn’t accept advice from others 
5)    He doesn’t want to listen or accept advice from a learned person or even attend lessons 
6)    When advising people he always puts them down 
7)     When speaking he will say good remarks about himself
8)    When he speaks he speaks with pride to let people know he has knowledge 
9)    He deals with people in bad way 
10) He walks in bad way 
11) He has looks down at people because he is wealthier, or has a better appearance.
 The cure for arrogance involves Knowledge and Action which involves the following remedies: 
·         Firstly, you should know and recognise your Lord and know and recognise your own self as you should be recognised, and that you are not worthy of greatness and that true greatness and pride are only for Allah Ta'ala 
·         Secondly, you should think of yourself as being just like other people and realize that they are like you; they were born from a mother and a father just as you were, and that taqwa (piety, fear of Allah) is the true criterion of superiority. 
·         *Allah Ta'ala says (interpretation of the meaning): “Verily, the most honourable of you with Allah is that (believer) who has At Taqwa [i.e. he is one of the Muttaqoon (the pious)” [Holy Quran Chapter Al-Hujuraat, 49:13].
·      (١٢) يَـٰٓأَيُّہَا ٱلنَّاسُ إِنَّا خَلَقۡنَـٰكُم مِّن ذَكَرٍ۬ وَأُنثَىٰ وَجَعَلۡنَـٰكُمۡ شُعُوبً۬ا وَقَبَآٮِٕلَ لِتَعَارَفُوٓاْ‌ۚ إِنَّ أَڪۡرَمَكُمۡ عِندَ ٱللَّهِ أَتۡقَٮٰكُمۡ‌ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ عَلِيمٌ خَبِيرٌ۬ (١٣) ۞
O mankind! We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that ye may know each other (not that ye may despise each other). Verily the most honoured of you in the sight of Allah is (he who is) the most righteous of you. And Allah has full knowledge and is well acquainted (with all things).
·         And finally, know and realize that on the Day of Resurrection the person with pride will be gathered in a small form like an ant which will be trampled underfoot as *The Prophet said: “On the Day of Resurrection, the arrogant will be gathered like ants in the form of men. Humiliation will overwhelm them from all sides. They will be driven to a prison in Hell called Bawlas, with the hottest fire rising over them, and they will be given to drink of the juice of the inhabitants of Hell, which is teenat al-khabaal*” [Narrated by al-Tirmidhi]. 
Arrogant people are hated by other people just as they are hated by Allah Ta'ala; people love humble, tolerant and gentle people, and they hate those who are harsh and cruel to people. 


Conclusion
It was narrated that Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri(R) and Abu Hurayrah(R) said: The Messenger of Allah () said: “Might is His garment and pride is His cloak; whoever seeks to compete with Me concerning them, I will punish him.” Sunan Abi Dawud 4090 and Sunan Ibn Majah Vol. 5, Book 37, Hadith 4174
Everyone who tries to be arrogant and put himself above others, Allaah will bring him down among the lowest of the low, and will humiliate him, because he is going against reality, so Allaah will punish him by thwarting his aims; the punishment is to fit the crime.
And Allah knows best!
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EARTH TO BEAR WITNESS FOR OR AGAINST YOU ON JUDGMENT DAY


EARTH TO BEAR WITNESS FOR OR AGAINST YOU ON JUDGMENT DAY
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THURSDAY 17TH JANUARY 2019 CE AND 10TH JUMUDAL ULA 1440 AH
BismillahWalhamdulillah Was Salaatu Was Salaam 'alaRasulillah. As-Salaam Alaikum WA-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakatuhu. Praise be to Allaah; we seek His help and His forgiveness. We seek refuge with Allaah from the evil of our own souls and from our bad deeds. Whomsoever Allaah guides will never be led astray, and whomsoever Allaah leaves astray, no one can guide. I bear witness that there is no god but Allaah, and I bear witness that Muhammad (SallalhualaihiWasalam) is His slave and Messenger.
HADITH
The Prophet of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: "Beware of the earth, for it is your root and basis, and there is nothing which a person does on it, that it will not report, whether it is good or bad." (Mujam at-Tabarani)
COMMENTARY
About Ali (radi Allahu anhu) it is related that when he distributed the money of the Bait ul-Mal (public treasury) among the needy and thus emptied it, he would perform two rakahs of prayer in the Bait ul-Mal and say: "You will have to bear witness that I filled you with justice and emptied you with justice."
The fact is that although Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) directly knows whatever a man does, yet in the Hereafter when He will establish His Court, He will punish every culprit only after fulfilling all the demands of justice.
Any case which is brought before His Court against a criminal will be proved with such perfect evidence that no room will be left to doubt his being a criminal. The first and foremost evidence against a person is the record in which the two recording angels are recording his each word and deed. (Holy Qur'an Surah Qaf 50: 17-18,
إِذۡ يَتَلَقَّى ٱلۡمُتَلَقِّيَانِ عَنِ ٱلۡيَمِينِ وَعَنِ ٱلشِّمَالِ قَعِيدٌ۬ (١٧) مَّا يَلۡفِظُ مِن قَوۡلٍ إِلَّا لَدَيۡهِ رَقِيبٌ عَتِيدٌ۬ (١٨)
''Behold two (guardian angels) appointed to learn (his doings) learn (and note them), one sitting on the right and one on the left. (17) Not a word does he utter but there is a sentinel by him, ready (to note it)''. HOLY Qur'an Surah Al-Infitar 82: 10-12) 
وَإِنَّ عَلَيۡكُمۡ لَحَـٰفِظِينَ (١٠) كِرَامً۬ا كَـٰتِبِينَ (١١) يَعۡلَمُونَ مَا تَفۡعَلُونَ (١٢)
 ''But verily over you (are appointed angels) to protect you― (10) Kind and honourable― writing down (your deeds): (11) They know (and understand) all that ye do.'' This record will be handed over to him and he will be asked to read it, for "you yourself suffice as reckoner against yourself." (Holy Qur'an Surah Bani Isra'il 17: 14)
ٱقۡرَأۡ كِتَـٰبَكَ كَفَىٰ بِنَفۡسِكَ ٱلۡيَوۡمَ عَلَيۡكَ حَسِيبً۬ا (١٤)
Reading it man will be bewildered, for "it has left nothing un-recorded of our deeds, small or great." (Holy QURAN Surah Al-Kahf 18: 49)
وَوُضِعَ ٱلۡكِتَـٰبُ فَتَرَى ٱلۡمُجۡرِمِينَ مُشۡفِقِينَ مِمَّا فِيهِ وَيَقُولُونَ يَـٰوَيۡلَتَنَا مَالِ هَـٰذَا ٱلۡڪِتَـٰبِ لَا يُغَادِرُ صَغِيرَةً۬ وَلَا كَبِيرَةً إِلَّآ أَحۡصَٮٰهَا‌ۚ وَوَجَدُواْ مَا عَمِلُواْ حَاضِرً۬ا‌ۗ وَلَا يَظۡلِمُ رَبُّكَ أَحَدً۬ا (٤٩)
Then there is man's own body which he had used in the world. In Allah's Court his own tongue will bear witness to what he had been speaking through it in the world, his own hands and feet will bear witness to what deeds he had committed through them. (Holy Quran Surah An-Nur 24: 24)
يَوۡمَ تَشۡہَدُ عَلَيۡہِمۡ أَلۡسِنَتُهُمۡ وَأَيۡدِيہِمۡ وَأَرۡجُلُهُم بِمَا كَانُواْ يَعۡمَلُونَ (٢٤)
 His eyes and his ears will bear witness to what he saw and heard by their means. Even the skin of his body will bear witness to his deeds. Bewildered he will ask his limbs, "Why have you borne witness against me?" They will reply: "The same God Who has given speech to everything has given us speech." (Surah Ha Mim As-Sajdah 32: 20-22) 
وَأَمَّا ٱلَّذِينَ فَسَقُواْ فَمَأۡوَٮٰهُمُ ٱلنَّارُ‌ۖ كُلَّمَآ أَرَادُوٓاْ أَن يَخۡرُجُواْ مِنۡہَآ أُعِيدُواْ فِيہَا وَقِيلَ لَهُمۡ ذُوقُواْ عَذَابَ ٱلنَّارِ ٱلَّذِى كُنتُم بِهِۦ تُكَذِّبُونَ (٢٠) وَلَنُذِيقَنَّهُم مِّنَ ٱلۡعَذَابِ ٱلۡأَدۡنَىٰ دُونَ ٱلۡعَذَابِ ٱلۡأَكۡبَرِ لَعَلَّهُمۡ يَرۡجِعُونَ (٢١) وَمَنۡ أَظۡلَمُ مِمَّن ذُكِّرَ بِـَٔايَـٰتِ رَبِّهِۦ ثُمَّ أَعۡرَضَ عَنۡهَآ‌ۚ إِنَّا مِنَ ٱلۡمُجۡرِمِينَ مُنتَقِمُونَ (٢٢)
On top of this, there will be the witnesses which will be presented from the earth and all its environments, in which man will hear his own voice by his own ears and see the exact pictures of his own deeds by his eyes. Furthermore, the ideas, motives and aims hidden in the heart of man and the intentions with which he had performed every deed will be brought out and placed before him as is stated in Surah Al-Adiyat. That is why with the production of such absolute, clear and undeniable proofs, man will be left confounded, with no chance to say anything in self-defense to excuse himself. (Surah Al-Mursalat 77. 35-36)
هَـٰذَا يَوۡمُ لَا يَنطِقُونَ (٣٥) وَلَا يُؤۡذَنُ لَهُمۡ فَيَعۡتَذِرُونَ (٣٦)
[Tafhim al-Quran, Sayyid Abul Ala Maududi]
SUMMARY
YOU ARE SURROUNDED/ ENCIRCLED BY ALL THESE WITNESSES FOR OR AGAINST YOUR WORLDLY DEEDS ON THE DAY OF QIYAMA - DAY OF JUDGMENT:-
1. . The two recording Angels
2. Man's own body which he had used
3. his OR HER own tongue will bear witness to
4. his/her own hands and feet will bear witness to what deeds
5. His eyes and his ears will bear witness to what he saw and heard
6. the skin of his body will bear witness to his deeds.
7. The earth and all its environments, in which man will hear his own voice by his own ears and see the exact pictures of his own deeds by his eyes
8. the ideas, motives and aims hidden in the heart of man and the intentions with which he had performed every deed













Friday, 7 September 2018

FREE MIXING OF OPPOSITE SEXES AND ITS IMPACT ON MUSLIM SOCIETY


 

FREE MIXING OF OPPOSITE SEXES AND ITS IMPACT ON MUSLIM SOCIETY
 
"CONTINUE REMINDING; A REMINDER BENEFITS THE BELIEVERS"

In modern western society free mixing, is regarded natural; men and women sitting together, dinning together, working together and studying together. However, this was not the case in the past, before the Second World War schools, colleges and most universities were single sex. Old school buildings still have entrances with engravings, ‘Boys Entrance’ or ‘Girls Entrance’. However, with rapid secularisation and disregard for traditional moral values after the Second World War free mixing has become the norm? In 2006, the last women’s only college in Oxford University opened its doors to men.

The Western liberal and promiscuous society with its laxed views on decency and modesty poses a real challenge to people of faith and particularly to practising Muslims. In this article I shall examine Islamic principles concerning free mixing and the biological and social costs of free mixing.

BIOLOGICAL DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THE SEXES

The Glorious Quran describes the biological relationship and the origin of man and women in the following manner: “People, be mindful of your Lord, He created you from a single person and created his partner from him, and then from the pair He spread countless men and women throughout the world” (Holy Quran Chapter An Nisa 4: 1). From this, it is understood that both the sexes have come from one living person, that was Adam (Peace be upon him). So Adam is the first man and father of humanity. Biologically, we know that all human beings have 23 pairs of chromosomes of which, one pair determines the sex of the individual; a female comes from two similar X chromosomes in each cell, whilst a male has one X and one smaller Y chromosome. This chromosomal difference leads to the sexual differences in men and women, differences in their bodies, organs and hormones. Traditionally these anatomical, physical and biological differences between men and women implied differences in their role and function of the two sexes as well. Men, hunter-gatherers, workers doing more strenuous work whilst women cared for and ran the home. There was a complementary in their roles.

The biological difference between the sexes has important functions of being a natural magnet between the two, as a source of attraction to one another. The Quran expresses this eloquently in the following verse: “Another of His signs is He created spouses from your own kind, in them you find comfort; and He nurtured love and kindness between you, in that are signs for thinkers” (Holy Quran Chapter Al Rum 30: 21).

Abdullah Yusuf Ali makes the following comment: “This refers to the wonderful mystery of sex. Children arise out of the union of the sexes and it is always the female that brings forth the offspring, whether female or male”. So there is natural attraction between the two sexes, scientists have discovered that in addition to the anatomical differences, another important cause of the natural attraction is the production of pheromones by the human body, particularly when they are together. These molecules cause attraction and are thought to also affect the natural ovulation and menstruation.

So biologically, there are strong tendencies to free mixing and enjoying the company of the opposite sex, however it can also be very destructive with disastrous results; unhealthy extra-marital affairs, rapes, stalking and sexual harassment. This can also lead to health risks like sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies, illegitimate children and broken families. Very heavy prices to pay for a momentary pleasure. The scale of these fallouts of sexual laxity and promiscuity is enormous, effecting perhaps millions of people in Britain. Not only does this leave physical scars but mental and social scars on future generations, which leads to further delinquency, social and moral degeneration.

Free mixing creates a fertile breeding ground for all kinds of suspicious, temptations, rumours and even accusations that conflict in families leading to domestic violence and criminal acts. Free mixing and greater familiarity and friendship with the opposite sex unconsciously produces attractions as expressed by an Arabic proverb; “ A look, then a smile, then a meeting and then … sin and even haram move”.

Modern society has not properly understood the destructive impact of free mixing on marriage, family and the very existence of humanity. It is interesting to note that some people in the West are beginning to recognise the dangers of free mixing and the benefits of segregation and are turning back to the old ways! This is seen in the mushrooming of women only schools, hospital wards, holiday resorts, workplaces, gyms and swimming pools etc. “In this single sex environment, women are allowed to be women once more and it is more relaxing, safer and better for women” (Sunday Times 22nd April 2007). The statistics about sexual harassment further confirm our reservations about a mixed environment, see the latest papers.

THE ISLAMIC GUIDANCE ON FREE MIXING

The blessed Messenger (peace be upon him) said, “Whenever a man is sitting alone with a woman, the devil is the third”. From this the scholars have formulated a principle that it is forbidden (haram) for a man and a woman to be alone if they are not mahram. Mahram are all those women that a man cannot marry including; mother, daughter, sister, aunt, niece, foster-mother, mother in law, step daughter etc (Holy Quran Chapter Al Nisa: 23).

This is a precautionary move, when the Quran commands, “Do not even go near adultery”, it means do not mix freely. The beloved Messenger (peace be upon him) said: “The eyes, ears and hands all commit adultery by looking listening and touching”.

Historically, the single sex environment was the natural and normal way of life for people all over the world. For Muslims it is also a religious duty. During the time of the Messenger (peace be upon him), women would attend the congregational prayer in the Masjid but they would be neither seen nor heard. They would pray in the back rows, come and go quietly without being noticed. What a peaceful, sublime and segregated yet united community! In order to help the believers live virtuously and to avoid evil, Islam lays down the principle of ‘denying the means’. Adultery and extra marital relationships are forbidden and to help people from falling into this temptation Islam has closed all those doors that lead to this evil by making it forbidden.

CORRESPONDING WITH A STRANGER (NON-MAHRAM) VIA THE INTERNET 

This is what has happened between two opposite sexes (you and a man) who is a non-mahram. Although this non-mahram has might proposed marriage to you, there are thousands who have not done so with the women whom they have caught in their traps. The marriages that are built on such foundations may be susceptible to doubt, suspicion and accusations, and the marriage may be doomed to failure. Be careful if such happens?

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https://islamqa.info/en/88125